John
L. Del Corpo, Sr.
August 18, 1961 – February 10, 2006
Delivered
by Nick Del Spina February 16, 2006
Johnny
cherished fatherhood and it was a side of him we never saw coming. What
a wonderful, caring and concerned, parent this tough guy from the streets
became to all of his children. How each child came into Johnny's life
was not an issue. John always said proudly I have 8 children. Deanna,
you gave John his first grandchild, and soon after Donald gave him two
more. Which made him a very proud grandfather. Jill- I know how proud
John was to give you away at your wedding, he felt honored to be called
your dad. Audra...you always made it your personal challenge to beat Jill
out on Father's day. It was a battle to see who would make him cry first.
Crystal, I will always remember your Dad driving around in his tow truck
with you as a baby...he was so proud to show you off. Johnny Boy - you
are your father's son. He taught you well and you will be strong like
him. Angela - how proud your dad was of you to be the first to go away
to college and how he cried when you left. Nicky the youngest of the bunch,
how proud John was of his football star.
As everyone knows John was into tattoos. His eyeball on his head gave
him the "johnny eyeball" name. He said he did that so when he
repo'd someone's car and they looked out their peep hole to see who it
was , he would turn his head sideways so all they would see was a giant
eyeball looking back at them. Every tattoo on John's body was not simply
ink. It was artwork created to memorialize a moment in his life. Some
represented the trials and tribulations that he had been through, some
were loved ones lost, others were celebrations like the birth of his grandkids.
His body became a road map of his life. To sit and stare at them would
be to stare into John's soul.
As intimidating a guy as he could be, and of course to look at him most
adults would be apprehensive about ever approaching him. But he was a
gentle giant. As tough as he looked children did not fear him. You see
children have the unique ability to look past the shell and only see the
inside. Just last summer, he was running errands in town and 3 little
girls were riding their bikes. He said they were about 7,6, & 5. The
traffic was crazy and he didn't like seeing them try to cross the street
without any help. So he pulled over , got out of his car and walked each
one across the street. Instead of being afraid of this stranger the littlest
one thanked him and said "Mister, I like the sunflower on your head."
But all that aside, remember John was tough as nails. The repo business
was his life. He was the best in his field. There wasn't a car he couldn't
get. Everybody who is delinquent in their payments is probably breathing
a sigh of relief right now thinking they can slide for a while. But I
warn you, Johnny may be gone but his family lives on.
John loved his family. He and Patty raised their children as a team. Not
only were these two partners in business they were partners in life. He
loved Patty down to the core. Patty and the kids were everything to him.
All summer you could see them at the lake on the boat. Johnny always had
someone with him. Whether it was a grandchild, a friend, his brother,
or even someone else's child. He loved everyone and would do anything
for a friend.
I could call John day or night and I knew he would be there for me. When
my father died John was there for me. Anytime I needed a friend to discuss
business or personal stuff I knew I could turn to him. I didn't just lose
a friend, I lost the brother that I always wanted.
Johnny Del Corpo was truly an amazing man. As you look around, you can
see how many people truly admired, respected and loved him. As he leaves,
he leaves behind Patty, his children and grandchildren and his brothers
and sister , all people that will keep his spirit alive and his memory
will continue on forever.
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